Who here has had wedding crashers?

Re: Who here has had wedding crashers?

• NerdyLucy member

  

  July 2013

  jashley398 said:

  I guess some people just think they are too cool for certain other people so they dont invite them to their wedding.

  
  A bride and groom can't invite the whole world.

  Officially hitched as of 10/25/13

  

   

  

   

   

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• Viczaesar member

  

  July 2013

  jashley398 said:

  I guess some people just think they are too cool for certain other people so they dont invite them to their wedding.

  You need a new shtick.  May I suggest asking how to tell which Facebook friends actually like you and which just agreed to your friend request out of politeness?
  

  
  
  
  

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• relliotts member

  

  July 2013

  jashley398 said:

  I guess some people just think they are too cool for certain other people so they dont invite them to their wedding.

  
  Certain people are rational enough to realize they are not friends with certain people and so don't invite them to their wedding.

  

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• Majide member

  

  July 2013

  I'm not too concerned, but I do have some posts on facebook, and people always ask when and where. Not all at once - different people will ask the different questions.

  Some of the people know they aren't invited, they are highschool friends, and we haven't kept in touch, they are just being pleasant, and I understand that. I'm slightly concerned about other people who might see it that aren't invited, though.

  I want to post my wedding website once I get my photos to add to it. Not adding the time to the site, though. I noticed my cousin who is getting married this year has the time, date, location and everything planned out on her website very clearly. Heck, she even has information for the bridal party to look at, for bachelor/bachelorette parties and things like that to keep them up-to-date. I don't want to give everyone all those details

  

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• [Deleted User] member

  

  July 2013

  I am worried I might be ABOUT to crash a wedding.  I'll keep it as simple as possible:

  Destination wedding in a few weeks, we were invited verbally by the Father of the bride, who is my fiance's stepdad, and he even made arrangements/booked flights for us so that we could all travel together.  We will be staying WITH FOB while we are there.  We received a Save the Date and an invite to the shower (although apparently that was a second invite, as they asked if we received the first and we hadn't) but no formal invite.  I don't know the couple personally.

  I figure that there are two explanations: our invite got lost in the mail/mis-addressed just like the first bridal shower invite, or the couple may have thought we didn't need a formal invite since we were traveling with her father. 

  Either way i feel hella awkward about it and my fiance says not to worry about it because his stepdad is the one paying for the wedding and he was the one who invited us & went as far as to fly us down there.  If this was on my side of the family, I would have called or something because I worry about everything, but my fiance is super laid back and just not worried about it.

  Sooo.... Are we crashers??

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• erinlin25 member

  

  July 2013

  We had two guests at our wedding (they were single) no +1's...rsvp'd for 1...but showed up with dates.  I quietly said WTF to myself, but let it go.  We happened to have 2 "no shows" and no one at the venue ever said anything to us-- I saw they were given seats with their "date" and they had food and had a good time.  They were nice to us and thanked us for having them there so I went with the flow.
  

  
  
  
  

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