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WTF happened in the not invited to a friend's wedding at a park thread?

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Re: WTF happened in the not invited to a friend's wedding at a park thread?

  • OP wasn't invited.  But, all of her friends (she says) were. She is upset and wants to know WHYYY she wasn't invited. Except, she isn't actually FRIENDS with any of these people. She knows them from church. But, has never hung out with them outside of church. 

    She thinks she should just show up to the wedding anyway. 

  • OP wants to creep on her "friends" wedding because it's happening on public property, even though she wasn't invited. She refuses to understand why this is not acceptable behavior. 
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  • And she has asked them multiple times to hang out outside of church, and they've always declined.  But somehow she still thinks they are friends, and close enough that she should have been invited.  And doesn't understand church acquaintance =/= close friend, even after 19 pages.
  • MUD.

    OP claims she was the only one not invited to a friend's park wedding, wanted to go anyway. Claimed she was BFFs with B/G. The reality seems to be they ignore her like a diseased rat. She kept asking why couldn't she ask why he wasn't invited and why didn't they want to be friends with her and she said hi in church every week so obvs they were besties. It came out other people weren't invited, but OP claimed all the people in the whole world whom she knew were going to be at this wedding.
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  • It's 19 pages now? Holy shit balls. 
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  • Yesh, I saw 537 new or some ridiculous number and couldn't believe it.
  • itzMSitzMS member
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    She's got some real gumption. I can't believe she is able to keep coming back and responding to people. Sheesh.
  • Oh, don't forget that she "wouldn't have to show up uninvited" if they had just invited her in the first place.

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  • NOLA... can you elaborate on the mass exodus??  I hadn't posted on here in a long time, until recently I posted a few questions.  And I noticed it's like a whole new world... wtf happened??  It seems like almost everyone is gone, and the tone feels different.  I see cuss words now!!  And it does seem nicer, less drama, less sarcastic and snippy replies.  (SORRY if that offends ppl or I get flamed, bc I know everyone would get pissed off whenever someone accused the board of being "mean").  But IDK, it is like totally different now.

    Where'd everyone go?!??!  What happened!??!  I've been wonderin'!!
  • And she's convinced that all 100 other congregation members are invited to this wedding.

    She has some major social issues.
  • Yeah, there's 305 new since I've looked, and I don't feel like weeding through all of that; HOWEVER, the OP just posted on my Wedding Crasher thread about how certain people are apparently too cool to invite certain other people.  Well, okey dokey.

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  • edited July 2013
    zobird said:
    And she's convinced that all 100 other congregation members are invited to this wedding. She has some major social issues.


    Right, except for her other "friend" from church, who didn't know the time of the wedding because she had also not received an invitation.   jashley = batshit.

     

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  • I'm floored the Knot Gods haven't noticed that the thread was a complete explosion of obvious trolling and just closed the fucking thread after the first 8 pages of "Why don't they like me?", "They don't have to have a reason", "But I talk to them at church, so why don't they like me?"

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    I'm floored the Knot Gods haven't noticed that the thread was a complete explosion of obvious trolling and just closed the fucking thread after the first 8 pages of "Why don't they like me?", "They don't have to have a reason", "But I talk to them at church, so why don't they like me?"

    I'm not sure trolling is against the new TOS. But AEs are, because reasons.


    I forgot: anything that's fun is against the TOS. This chick stopped being fun. She and her thread now get to stay forever.

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  • Nope, it just disappeared when I was only halfway through. Either that or TK broke...again.
  • Dammit I wasn't finished reading the trainwreck!
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  • I was just going through it and then vanished.  I think they finally closed it.
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  • @CourtaniaLynn, it was just 10 more pages of the same, with some gifs thrown in

  • Why did the TK Gods delete it?  They should have just closed it so it didn't keep getting bigger and bigger.  That was an interesting read with some good ass gifs!.


  • I like GIFs. After like page 12 I skimmed everything that wasn't from jashley herself or didn't feature a GIF.
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  • I like GIFs. After like page 12 I skimmed everything that wasn't from jashley herself or didn't feature a GIF.
    I did the same thing!

  • NOLA... can you elaborate on the mass exodus??  I hadn't posted on here in a long time, until recently I posted a few questions.  And I noticed it's like a whole new world... wtf happened??  It seems like almost everyone is gone, and the tone feels different.  I see cuss words now!!  And it does seem nicer, less drama, less sarcastic and snippy replies.  (SORRY if that offends ppl or I get flamed, bc I know everyone would get pissed off whenever someone accused the board of being "mean").  But IDK, it is like totally different now.

    Where'd everyone go?!??!  What happened!??!  I've been wonderin'!!
    Most of the E and SB regulars left TK and formed a group on Proboards.  So things around here were really slow for a while.  They are starting to pick up again, but the board posts are still only a fraction of what they used to be.
  • Thank, Libby, for picking up the previous question. But yeah, there was a very close-knit group of regs who were a lot of fun. We used to do morning threads and evening threads that would be dedicated exclusively to just chatting about each other's lives.  FFF was also a lot bigger deal (I think the new TOS have put a HUGE damper on that anyway with not being allowed to call people out or link to other threads).

    I miss those women. They were great. A bunch of them came back on April 1....the moment in Harry Potter's final movie when he finally shows up at Hogwarts came to mind when that happened.  But there have been amazing new posters that have begun to fill the spaces lately.  =) 

    It's still a lot quieter around here without them.
  • rajahmdrajahmd member
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  • Hi Everyone, that user was banned for trolling. Even though there was great advice given, it was clear that she signed up yesterday just to provoke members.

    Trolling is listed in the community rules here:

    “Trolling” The Knot boards by posting inflammatory or off-topic messages with the intent of provoking members/disrupting normal discussion is not permitted and will lead to warning/banning from the boards.

    http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center/the-knot-about-us/articles/knot-community-rules.aspx
  • She has a thread on weddingbee, too, exactly like the one she started here, just FYI.   On the other thread here, someone linked to a thread on weddingbee from a poster asking if she should contact a teacher's spouse or some such thing.  There was some speculation that is the same person.  But in addition to that one (if that is her), there is a thread she started with virtually the same post she put here.  

    Very bizarre!  
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  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    edited July 2013
    Yes, Porscha has already said the OP was banned for being an obvious troll. 

    ETA:Here. I'm assuming it's ok to link this since I'm not doing so to make fun of anyone. 

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  • Update:  Following another website the OP is posting about this topic on no less than 7 other websites including a 'social anxiety' thread which leads me to believe they are more legit then we originally thought and truly do not understand or can't understand the reason why they shouldn't attend a wedding they're not invited to.  I hope they get the help they need to figure that out before that make the situation awkward for everyone. :(


    If they are a troll...it's the most elaborate one I've heard of lately.
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