Not only am I a plus sized bride but this is my second wedding and I'm in my mid forties. I didn't have any kind of showers or bachelorette party my first go round and my friends all want to make it up to me this time. I'm protesting bridal showers and a crazy bachelorette party but they want to do something and suggested a lingerie shower. Personally I am more comfortable in soft tees and shorts or nighties but I'm going along with their plans (can't take away all of their fun!) So where do I tell them to shop because they are already asking me what my favorite lingerie is? Obviously Victoria's Secret is out. Any suggestions?