So I had posted last month about going to my friend's (one year later) engagement party, and then making the observation they were wearing wedding bands. Turned out they were secretly married two days earlier. They still haven't told anyone. They don't plan to. They want to have a big wedding next year as planned.
She's been starting to plan a big Disney destination wedding for next year. She had originally asked me to be a bridesmaids last year when she got engaged. When she told me her new plan I might have said something along the lines of "you want us all to fly down to Disney for you to fake a wedding ceremony?"
Probably not the nicest way to phrase it, but it happened so there is no taking it back now. She thinks I'm not being supportive and won't want to go along with all the pre-wedding party planning and helping out. She updated her wedding website and replaced me as a bridesmaid.
I'm not even upset. I could honestly care less about being in her "wedding" and didn't want to dish out a bunch of money for a shower and travel expenses when it's a big hoax. Honestly with the crazy train she boarded I do not see our friendship continuing anyway. I'm just regretting the heck out of sending her a STD.
