I'm looking for help in deciding whether it'd be appropriate for me to ask the bride whether I can bring my new boyfriend to her wedding in October. She has been my best friend since high school (15 years now), and I am one of her three bridesmaids for her destination wedding in Cancun. I just began a relationship in late May, but it has gotten quite serious quickly. My friend recently met my boyfriend and will have many more opportunities to meet him before her big day; we all live in the same area.
Her other two bridesmaids all have been in longer relationships, so naturally their significant others are attending. What are people's thoughts on whether it is appropriate to ask if I can bring this new person? I'd really love it if he could attend with me. I've never been in a relationship during other friends' weddings, but is it too soon for this one to ask to be included?
I think the guest list now is around 60 people.