Hey brides! So, my fiancé and I just scheduled our engagement pics for October and we will be taking the pictures for our save the dates then too. I have 2 questions...when are you supposed to send them out? I have heard 4 months before and I've also been told as far as one year prior! We are not having a destination wedding and have few guests from out of state invited. Also...if we have "fall" pictures for our save the dates, will it be odd to send them in let's say, February? (Our wedding is October 2014 by the way) ...and my second problem is that My fiancé and I are very silly, fun, outgoing people. As much as our wedding is special to us and the ceremony will be romantic and elegant..we're planning on fun, upbeat, party atmosphere reception. I fell in love with some really funny save the date ideas that I know the majority of our guests will get a kick out of. I'm concerned though because Im not sure that EVERYONE on our guest list will appreciate our humor. So, is it ok to order 2 different styles? One more modest for the guests who won't appreciate our humor..and one that we love for the rest of our party people list? Thanks brides!