I am wondering what you guys think...
If someone in the bridal party chooses not to go to the bachelorette party, should she still help contribute to cover the cost of the bridet?
I'm not sure if that's something I should bring up... We're going pole dancing and to bars. The person lives out of the area and has kids, so she can't bring them with her obviously to the bachelorette party... and then the shower is the next day, which she is attending with her daughter. She's contributing her share for the bridal shower.
For the bachelorette party we're going to a pole dancing class, bars, and then all sharing a hotel room. The rest of us are covering the cost of the bride for pole dancing class, drinks, and hotel room as I believe is customary. Do you think it's fair/right to ask this other person to give an the equal share to cover the cost of the bride price since she's basically making it more expensive for all of us because she can't/won't attend...?