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NYCMercedes · August 2013

Drats. Cannot see pages 1 and 2.

Simply Fated · August 2013

nsweare said:

Am I the only one raging about the fact OP didn't think her family was "real" unless they were married??? U-fucking-believable!

It's 2013 1955 up in here.

Simply Fated · August 2013

NYCMercedes said:

Drats. Cannot see pages 1 and 2.

Yeah, it's really weird. Do you need a CN?

NYCBruin · August 2013

nsweare said:
Am I the only one raging about the fact OP didn't think her family was "real" unless they were married??? U-fucking-believable!

No. I find this horribly offensive.

easilyunamused · August 2013

NYCMercedes said:
Drats. Cannot see pages 1 and 2.

I can't either. Must be a "glitch".

thejucheidea · August 2013

asims4210 said:

3 years is a milestone for us.

lol, aim high.

[Deleted User] · August 2013

I can't see the first two pages on my end either. Will look into it...

midnightfairy93 · August 2013

hey it doesnt matter whether you get married at the courthouse or in a very small chapel where you dont have a ceremony or a reception. you can still have a REAL wedding. people dont need a BITCH to tell them whether they deserve a wedding ceremony and reception or not. she wanted ideas and you are just here to give some advice not to ruin someones day by being stupid and rude. dont be a bitch and tell her shes a bad person because she could afford the ceremony. people do it all the time and honestly she doesnt need your shitty advice because you know what it SUCKS anyways. idc what you say about me i honestly dont because you dont know me and i dont need your poor advice. those who dont support other brides, ceremony or not, dont deserve to have their opinion heard. so get off your high horses and be helpful or go the fuck away. Good day ladies and congrats on your engagement/marriage. Good luck to the men that are stuck with your selfish asses.

thejucheidea · August 2013

@KnotPorscha, name-calling by @midnightfairy93.

aurianna · August 2013

midnightfairy93 said:
hey it doesnt matter whether you get married at the courthouse or in a very small chapel where you dont have a ceremony or a reception. you can still have a REAL wedding. people dont need a BITCH to tell them whether they deserve a wedding ceremony and reception or not. she wanted ideas and you are just here to give some advice not to ruin someones day by being stupid and rude. dont be a bitch and tell her shes a bad person because she could afford the ceremony. people do it all the time and honestly she doesnt need your shitty advice because you know what it SUCKS anyways. idc what you say about me i honestly dont because you dont know me and i dont need your poor advice. those who dont support other brides, ceremony or not, dont deserve to have their opinion heard. so get off your high horses and be helpful or go the fuck away. Good day ladies and congrats on your engagement/marriage. Good luck to the men that are stuck with your selfish asses.

Funny. Someone who didn't join until today magically knows what was said in the thread pages that haven't been accessible for two days.

This board isn't for "supporting" bad ideas; it's for giving etiquette advice, which we gave you... I mean which we gave the OP.

No one likes hearing that their idea is rude. It's not a good feeling. It's probably especially disappointing when it's about something you really wanted. So I understand being defensive. But take some time to cool down and reflect. No one here has any reason to just rain on OP's parade out of spite and if you look at other boards you'll see these same ladies giving good advice on all sorts of matters. So if no one here has a reason to lie about this idea being tacky, you should eventually come to the realization that maybe they are saying as much because it really is in poor taste.

Have an awesome event with your friends and family. Celebrate your love. Dress up and look great. You can do all of this without having to fake something that already took place. Think on it a bit longer.

KnotJackie · August 2013

Before I start to issue warnings, as we re-adjust from recent events, this thread is getting to be very attacking. Ideas are allowed to be disagreed with, but DIRECT profanity/name calling towards a user is not OK. I will contact users privately if need be...

NYCBruin · August 2013

KnotJackie said:

Before I start to issue warnings, as we re-adjust from recent events, this thread is getting to be very attacking. Ideas are allowed to be disagreed with, but DIRECT profanity/name calling towards a user is not OK. I will contact users privately if need be...

Jackie-since no one knows what the rules are, it would be helpful if you gave us some PUBLIC guidance on what is and is not OK. I understand not wanting to point to a specific post/poster, but if you added some examples to the TOS of actual posts that violated them with the user's information removed, I think the community would be a lot less confused.

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