Both me and my fiancee's Family are religious, But we don't share the same views as they do, but we have not told them this. We have decided not to get married in a church or get married by a minister. Our families keep asking who is going to marry us, and we really don't ant to get into the religion discussion/ debate. What is the best way to let our families down easy, or tell them we are not doing a religious ceremony with out telling them about our views?