I have very fine blonde hair that goes a few inches lower than my shoulders. It does not hold style. Curl tends to relax to waves within a few hours. I always just thought I would have my hair up for my wedding given it's nature, but my fiance hates it up and really wants it down. We have discussed a compromise of a half up do, but I really don't want straight hair. I'm still a few months away from a trial and have not yet discussed this with any professionals. Fellow fine haired brides- how did you wear your hair?