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Bridal Shower-Panty Game

kristenrmu22kristenrmu22 member
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Has anyone played the panty game. If so, how did your guests react? Was anyone offended. I thought of doing it for the shower because I think it would be great fun but of course would hate to offend my future in-laws (I don't think it would but you never know). This is the poem we thought about using (my sister asked that I give her an idea- this was my only help. I am not planning my own shower). If we don't do it for a shower maybe a bach. party. 

Rose are red, violets are blue
Groom and Bride, are about to say "i do"
Frilly or silly, naughty or nice
Let's give their honeymoon, a little bit of spice!
Please help bride by bringing a pair of panties to the shower.
Remember, we want to knock groom off his feet but still let him know what everyday life will be like!


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  • mandaroo7mandaroo7
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    edited December 2011

    I just came back from a bach. trip and we did a panty game.  Eveyone knew ahead of time (no poem though), we each bought a pair of panites, put them in matching white bags and the bride had to guess who got her the panties.  If she got it wrong, she had to take a "drink" and if she got it right, the person who bought them had to take a "drink".  It was pretty funny and she got some cute undies. 

    As far as offending anyone, I think it depends on the group of ladies.  If you think it will offend someone, I would not do it.  The bride doesn't need anything to be embarrassing.  Good luck!

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  • aleighk1aleighk1
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    edited December 2011
    I think it would be fun to do at the b-party! Since the mothers and grandmothers aren't usually invited to the b-party.
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  • hanson2Bhanson2B member
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    edited December 2011
    I've played that twice, and both times, it was at the bachelorette party.  I don't think it's quite appropriate for a shower with the older relatives and such.  Definitely more of a bachelorette party thing.  Everyone seemed to really have fun with it!
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  • hannahhannah1hannahhannah1 member
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    edited December 2011
    I HAD THIS PARTY FOR MY BRIDAL SHOWER! It was soooo much fun! I got 40 pairs! I got married in August and I just can't seem to get enough of this wedding stuff. So, I made a blog for future brides to read the secrets and tricks that I figured out. Check out my DOS and DON'TS and advise: 

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  • trix1223trix1223 member
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    edited December 2011
    hannah:  enough with your dopey blog.  How many posts did you create today to hawk it?
    "Trix, it's what they/our parents wanted. Why so judgemental? And why is your wedding date over a year and a half ago? And why do you not have a groom's name? And why have you posted over 12,000 posts? And why do you always say mean things to brides?" palegirl146
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  • SweetCharadeSweetCharade member
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    edited December 2011
    I'd do it for the bach. party...I can't imagine how awkward it would be to open panties in front of my grandmother and great-grandmother - both of who were in attendance at my bridal shower.  

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  • alorav21alorav21
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    edited December 2011
    love this idea for a bachelorette party! Im gonna have to tell my maid of honor about this! I agree that it might be awkward to do in front of older relatives, plus they probably would buy weird underwear. I would be freaked out if my grandma bought me something sexy! yuck
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  • mysticlmysticl member
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    I would refuse if someone offered to throw me a party that had everyone giving me underwear.  I probably would not attend a party where I was expected to buy someone underwear.  For one thing certain things are just private.  For another I am very particular about what I wear and can pretty much guarentee I would't wear any of the underwear people would give at a party. 
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  • jerseydeviljerseydevil member
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    edited December 2011
    I think it's much more of a bachelorette party game, than a shower.
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  • Kristin789Kristin789 member
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    edited December 2011
    This.  Exactly.

    >>>I would refuse if someone offered to throw me a party that had everyone giving me underwear.  I probably would not attend a party where I was expected to buy someone underwear.  For one thing certain things are just private.  For another I am very particular about what I wear and can pretty much guarentee I would't wear any of the underwear people would give at a party. 
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  • trix1223trix1223 member
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    edited December 2011
    There are some things that should just be private.  And my underwear is one of them.  Your underwear is another one of them.
    "Trix, it's what they/our parents wanted. Why so judgemental? And why is your wedding date over a year and a half ago? And why do you not have a groom's name? And why have you posted over 12,000 posts? And why do you always say mean things to brides?" palegirl146
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  • kristenrmu22kristenrmu22 member
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    edited December 2011
    Bach party it is. I think my girl friends would love it. Thanks girls. 
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  • mamamindymamamindy member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm not sure how your bachelorette parties went, but people gave me things that were extremely personal...ie: panties, battery opperated toys, etc... that is just want happens at a bachelorette party... I think you need to loosen up.
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  • ulust4akissulust4akiss member
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    loosen up!
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  • jackiejune45jackiejune45 member
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     After reading all these comments I would ave to say I guess it depends on the people invited, I am having a bridal shower next week and my MOH has arranged this game for the party. I have mine and his grandmas coming, aunts and cousins and such and not one of them I would believe to be offended. I think it will be fun, yea sure maybe a little embarrasing depending on the panty, but thats fun. Not to mention I am always grateful for more panties wheather I bought them or someone else did, but  it sounds to me that a lot of people commenting may be a little more uptight than I am so if you are planning on throwing a Bridal shower for someone else just make sure she can handle a little embarrising fun
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  • Jenniferperez20Jenniferperez20 member
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    I am super excited to play this at my shower. Does anyone have any rules for it or should a little note be sent with the shower invitations? Advice please. :)
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  • ViczaesarViczaesar member
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    My advice is twofold: start new threads rather than digging up zombie threads, and don't do this at your shower.



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  • Blue_BirdBlue_Bird member
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    Viczaesar said:
    My advice is twofold: start new threads rather than digging up zombie threads, and don't do this at your shower.
    :-)
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