So I was just wondering what the Etiquette behind this might be...
MOH's mother is awful. She is crazy and goes to the ends of the earth to try and seperate my MOH from her Husband. This is a woman I grew up with as a large part of my life, but as the years have gone on she has just gotten worse and worse. It's to the point that no one has a relationship with her anymore. She was nasty during my MOH's wedding and tried to ruin the day. The relationship is very strained and my Dad has made it a point to protect the MOH he doesn't want the mother at my wedding (everyone agrees with this). We know the mother will start going after the MOH at some point during the day.
I get a call (went to VM, didn't take the call) today from the Mother congratulating me on the engagement and wanting to send a gift. She was calling to confirm my address. She asked me to call back and she wanted to talk details about the wedding. I haven't talked to this woman in almost 2 years. I really don't want to return a call to talk wedding details to an event I have no intention of inviting her to.
So what is the right thing to do here? I am thinking I return the call tonight, keep it very short confirming the address and quick catch-up, keep wedding talk as limited as possible. We accept the gift when it come and I send a nice thank you note. We leave it at that. Right?