So I reallllly want to wear my hair down for the ceremony, just some relaxed curls to it, then I'll pin it up in a side bun for the reception. I've never given too much thought to how I do my hair in years past and so I've never figured out how to get it to stay curled. It's pretty long and naturally stick strait and anytime I curl it, it wilts and loses it's shape within an hour or so, depending on what I'm doing, weather, etc. Any hair gurus out there have any tips on how to make it keep some decent looking curls for at least 2-3 hours (time enough for ceremony & pictures). I know I can go to a salon and they can probably work it out, but if I can figure it out on my own, that's a few more dollars I save plus travel time on the day of. Thanks!