To have OR to hold...?

hlvonb · August 2013

Thank you both. My biological mother is an alcoholic and I have cut ties with her because it got to be too much.

As for the lady in this situation, she acts like she's able to function on a day to day basis. If you were to drive / walk by she would seem fine. The issue is when you talk to her. It usually doesn't make sense at all.

hlvonb · August 2013

oh boy....

So this lady came down to my apartment last night. She dyed my hair several months ago and asked if I remembered exactly what shades of the colors we used. I told her was not sure what we used and asked why. She said she was curious because she wanted to write it down so she could get some from work (she's a hair stylist) so she can dye my hair for the wedding.

I just said sorry I can't help you because I don't remember.

Am I reading too much into this by thinking this is her way of stating that she thinks she is still in or a part of the wedding?

kmmssg · August 2013

You are not reading too much into this. You NEED to tell her directly, firmly, and now, that she is no longer a part of the wedding. Remember when I said, "He would pretend that things were all hunky dory, that he never dropped out of the wedding, he would get the clothes he needed to get (quietly as to not draw attention to the situation he surely never caused), show up, and then be mortified that he was no longer in the wedding" ? Well, that is where you are now - that is exactly what she is doing. Tell her now.

hlvonb · August 2013

Yes Ma'am. That is what I plan on doing

kmmssg · August 2013

Good luck!

hlvonb · August 2013

Thanks!

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