I've been good friends with a girl for many years. A few months ago, she became engaged and asked me to be her MOH, which I happily accepted.
My boyfriend and I have been having serious wedding conversations, and this month he proposed! I excitedly called my friend and told her the exciting news (knowing that she would just as happy for me as I am for her), only to be shocked when she jokingly said "Don't get married before me!".
While the manner she said it in was joking, I'm now in this difficult place where I want to be married the spring before her wedding, and I don't want this to turn into "Bride Wars". How does one handle this situation gracefully? Am I totally in the wrong?