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    manateehuggermanateehugger member
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    Sorry kssmmg, I'm going to have to disagree. I'm glad you have such a great relationship with your step-kids though.

    I think step-parents making promises during the wedding ceremony is just odd and out of place. And these girls are young ladies, not little girls. If my (ex) step-mother had made a promise like this to me during her wedding to my father, not only would she have been making a false promise, I would have thought it was creepy as heck. I was 14 when he remarried. I didn't hate my step-mother, but I wanted nothing to do with her wedding ceremony to my father.

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    PDKH said:

    Sorry kssmmg, I'm going to have to disagree. I'm glad you have such a great relationship with your step-kids though.

    I think step-parents making promises during the wedding ceremony is just odd and out of place. And these girls are young ladies, not little girls. If my (ex) step-mother had made a promise like this to me during her wedding to my father, not only would she have been making a false promise, I would have thought it was creepy as heck. I was 14 when he remarried. I didn't hate my step-mother, but I wanted nothing to do with her wedding ceremony to my father.

    I was a teenager when I attended my dad and stepmom's DW. I would have been weirded out and put on the spot if I had been involved in the vows somehow. It was their wedding, not mine.



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    Dreamergirl8812 said:


    PDKH said:

    Sorry kssmmg, I'm going to have to disagree. I'm glad you have such a great relationship with your step-kids though.

    I think step-parents making promises during the wedding ceremony is just odd and out of place. And these girls are young ladies, not little girls. If my (ex) step-mother had made a promise like this to me during her wedding to my father, not only would she have been making a false promise, I would have thought it was creepy as heck. I was 14 when he remarried. I didn't hate my step-mother, but I wanted nothing to do with her wedding ceremony to my father.


    I was a teenager when I attended my dad and stepmom's DW. I would have been weirded out and put on the spot if I had been involved in the vows somehow. It was their wedding, not mine.


    We just all agree to disagree and i am good with that. You are all quite passionate on this topic and each time I don't understand why such a strong reaction occurs. As far as if I would have disagreed with the girls' mother, well, I am not their mother so if it was something to do with their well being it would have been DH's issue to deal with. We disagree, that' fine.

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    artbyallieartbyallie mod
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    OP, especially since they have another bio-parent, it's really even more inappropriate to have a ceremony with them. It would definitely insult their mom, and while you may be okay with that, it will also damage their relationship with all of their parents, you included.
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    Dreamergirl8812Dreamergirl8812 member
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    OP you've been on TK since 2007 and you need to go crying to the tech board about deleting this thread?

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