Just wondering peoples opinions:
I was just informed I was "classless" by MIL for not wanting to do welcome/care packages. I mean I really don't think she thought it threw like I did. The logistics alone would be a nightmare. With everything we are already bringing down from canada, this is not one thing I want to worry about or even have to deal with and put together... Bah!
So who is doing it and who is not? If so, why?
Re: Welcome pkgs? Yay or nay?
Can't wait to say 'I do' on April 14, 2014 - Planning Bio
I REALLY wanted to do welcome kits, I had everything planned out for them. After putting more thought into the logistics of handing them out, getting everything down there etc I decided against it. Way too much trouble for what its worth. Not everyone is staying in the same hotel or arriving on the same day so it would be way too much of a hassle to hand them out. And I don't want to spend a day worrying about getting people a welcome bag that they may or may not really want anyways.
I will be creating a welcome/thank you letter and itinerary that I will be sending people 2-3 weeks prior to the trip. And I'll be giving out our favours at the reception.
Good to hear what others' thoughts are on these, as well, as we're on the fence right now.
We're planning a smaller wedding with about 60 guests and are anticipating maybe 35-40 guest rooms for welcome bags if we did them. I'd pictured including bottled water, snacks (protein bars, mixed nuts, pretzels), chocolates, and maybe some small personal items like ibuprofen, Shout wipes, and hand sanitizer, plus a local map and a card with details for guests on where to go.
I too had been concerned about the logistics -- it would be super expensive to ship ahead of time and have bags maintain their shape. I imagine the bags and items would run maybe $20 each and shipping would be about that per bag. However, the last thing I'll want to do when getting into town for my wedding is run around to Costco or CVS and stuff bags.
I've had my heart set on having miniature champagne bottles as the table assignment cards/gift, but am not sure if the venue we're interested in would allow that. If not, I might just go with two mini champagne bottles with a thank you card for each room and have the champagne vendor ship directly to the hotel.
I've enjoyed receiving bags as a guest
Sorry, end of that posted before I was done!
I've enjoyed receiving bags in rooms as a guest, and do feel it would be a nice touch since everyone will be from out of town and it'd be nice to have something awaiting you when you arrived!
Anyway, I'm doing a welcome bag of sorts. It's really just my favors with a couple extras thrown in & I'm doing them as "welcome bags" so that if people want to go out after the reception, they aren't stuck carrying around our wedding favors. Plus, I'm a 5 hour drive from Vegas. And while we are flying, many of our guests are driving & have offered to drive up any supplies we need. So I can put everything together beforehand.
Our bags will include a bottle of water (with our personal labels on them), a little bag of our kisses that have our stickers on them, a little "care pack" of travel packets of tylenol, pepto, & a little pack of kleenex, and some other salty snack that I haven't though of yet.