i have a quick question. my fiancee and i are getting married next summer and we are discussing our attendants. we each have a younger sister, both of whom of course want to be in the party. i also have my two best friends from childhood who will be my bridesmaids (no maids of honor). my fiancee is going to ask his male cousin, and his sister (grooms--woman? gal? groomsmaid) and probably one other friend. this friend and his fiancee is someone that we hang out with a fair amount of time. is it ok for my fiancee to just ask the guy, and i not ask the girl? this makes it the parties more balanced, etc. i dont know. we are pretty good friends with them as a couple, though the my fiancee and the guy work together. she may ask me to be in her upcoming wedding, but not sure. help!