well we changed our wedding date from 10/31/14 to the following year same day though. I have given up control of the plans though. The only thing I will know about is the venue, food(cake included), and the dresses(mine and the girls). I do know the theme is Post Apocaliptic Chic. The person we meet with yesterday says we are on the same page for the most part so I am really excited. I was really worried when he said he wanted zombie theme. Am I crazy for not wanting to know more about it or is it romantic he wants to surprise me?