I have been friends with my MOH for about 16 years. We were thick as thieves. I have been engaged for about 1 1/2 years now. Since the year mark, my MOH has been unreliable. I have taken care of majority of the larger tasks and everything is pretty much taken care of. I have asked my MOH to attend several milestones in the wedding planning process. For example, I invited her to go dress shopping with me back in January 09. Mind you, this was the first time I went dress shopping. My MOH said that she would be there and was on her way to the shop. She was literally right around the corner; she got lost and got frustrated. Instead of calling me for directions, she turned around and went back home. She never called me to let me know what was going on. I had to call her afterwards to find out what happend.
Since then, she has been a no show on numberous occasions even after she gave her word. She would apologize and continue her same bad habits in the beginning. Her response now is she doesn't know what else she can do or say to make things right. She would say, "If I don't want her as a MOH then I got to do what I gotta do!" Now, my MOH was never like this before now. I am getting frustrated with her. I need advise Pront!