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Oh hey, place cards? (Not for wedding though...)

Not for a wedding, but still HELP! Have a major client meeting on Monday for about 30 different people, and we're going out to dinner at a fancy shmancy restaurant in the evening (private dining room and open bar -- SCORE!). One of my supervisors decided that we should have place cards at dinner... how does that work? Just the names? Or something else... i.e. John Jones, Mr. John Jones... or something else? Should I have the M_______________________________ format and handwrite it in? I don't have time for this nonsense...

 

 

 

Re: Oh hey, place cards? (Not for wedding though...)

  • Mr John Jones will do. Since it's a work thing, in my profession I'd include any professional "alphabet soup" after their name. i.e. Mr John Jones, MBA

    Only you know if that would work for you.
  • If I was hosting this in my home ala Mrs. Draper, I would write Mr. John Jones, Mrs. Susan Jones and if SO's are coming alternate between male/female, your boss would sit at the head, his second/wife would sit at the foot.

    If SO's aren't coming you don't have to alternate between male female but it is 'better'.

    Also I would have them either typed or fully hand written, no M______

    (I'm on a 50's housewife kick at the moment, cleaning in heels, having drinks before dinner LOL)

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  • Thanks! I will be very happy with Monday is over... looking forward to the open bar though, not gonna lie.

     

  • doeydodoeydo member
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    edited October 2013
    I believe there is usually a line for the name (M_________ where you/the host fill in the name) and a line for the table number (Table Number _______, Table No. ______, Table # ______, or Table _______ where, again, you/the host write in the table number/name).
    ETA I think if you have nice and legible handwriting you could just write it out, or you could print right onto the card if you prefer.
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  • mysticlmysticl member
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    edited October 2013
    I would only do the line if you are buying these preprinted somewhere and then filling them in.  If you are just getting blank cards I would do the entire thing on the computer.  I like the suggestion of including their credentials after their names but only if you have them for everyone.  You don't want someone getting offended because you left their Ph.D off. 

    ETA:  If you are using preprinted ones with the line I'd handwrite them so it wouldn't look like you typed in a line to type on.  And since my handwriting is atrocious I'd either pawn them off on someone else to do or just get blank cards and do them on the computer.
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  • Placecards should always be hand-written and should have nothing on them except the guest's name and title. Since this is a business event, it should be the person's business name and business titles: "Mr John Smith, P.E.", "Janet Jones, Esq.", and so on. There should not be any pre-printed "M" or writing line printed onto the card. The handwriting should be in clear elegant script in black ink.
  • Placecards should always be hand-written and should have nothing on them except the guest's name and title. Since this is a business event, it should be the person's business name and business titles: "Mr John Smith, P.E.", "Janet Jones, Esq.", and so on. There should not be any pre-printed "M" or writing line printed onto the card. The handwriting should be in clear elegant script in black ink.
    Yeah, well we are not all capable of that.  I don't think I've seen a handprinted place card or escort card in at lease 10 years.  In fact they don't even teach cursive in schools anymore so pretty soon people are not even going to know how to write in script.
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