Hi all,
My husband and I got married across the country where our families are, but want to host a party for our friends where we live (NYC).
So many questions! Can I invite people that I didn't originally invite to the wedding? I want to include our broad base of friends here, even though we had to make tough decisions regarding the invite for the ceremony out of town. Of the 30 people we invited from New York, only 5 could afford to fly down for the wedding. It's important that we get to celebrate with those that couldn't.
Also, we can't afford in NYC to host an open bar for the number of people we'd like to have. How can I send out invites noting that appetizers will be offered, but they'll be paying for their own drinks?....it's an informal celebration, cash bar, a few hours to mingle and celebrate with those who couldn't be there.
We will be requesting NO gifts, providing appetizers and also sending them off with a small edible favor.
Ideas on how to word this invite and who is appropriate to invite?
Thanks!