I know that cash bars are a BIG No No. And we aren't planning to do a cash bar.
Is an open bar during cocktails ok and then beer/wine only for the reception ok?
Semi-Related: Much of my future inlaws have issues with drinking too much/drugs etc, and I really don't want to deal with them being drunk and saying/doing things they shouldn't. FMIL has already called me drunk and called me a gold-digger etc. So, yeah. I also don't want a dry reception because that's not fun either...or am I just stuck with the drunk inlaws that can't handle themselves...