Help! Wedding budget basically disappeared! We have help but not enough. I cant afford anything and I dont want to give up my wedding. I am gettng married in a Church for donation only that my mom is going to pay. FMIL has offered to pay for the food (god bless her!) Someone else is paying for Dj...so all in all we have the reception venue, decorations and photographer and of course our attire and attire of our 3 children. We found a photographer for $800 and shes amazing! Question is!???? I need someone to have a reception for next to nothing. I have found community centers but am worried about decor and things. I cant be there until i walk down the aisle. Im very nervous to leave someone else in charge. It would have to be someone not in the bridal party or immediate family. How are you dealing and what venues have you came across? Prices including in suggestion please?