We received one boxed gift at our wedding (a beautiful picture frame) but we don't know who it was from. IIRC there was a card on top but other cards got placed in the bag by the end of the night when we were packing up. I know which card was placed on top first, so going by that we have a slight idea who it may be based on the last card in the pile. The card contained a check, not a large sum, but a generous gift nonetheless. I'm wondering if someone would be more likely to give a smaller amount of money + a boxed gift, or if someone was more likely to give a boxed gift without a card (if my memory is wrong about seeing a card in the bag). Regardless, we would love to know who gave us this gift so we can thank them for it. Is it rude of us to ask our guests if they purchased it? A handful of guests didn't even give a card and I don't want to call attention to that by asking if they gave the frame. I'm lost as to what the right thing to do is :-/
After 6 years and 2 boys, finally tying the knot on October 27th, 2013!