For reasons I can't fully understand, my fiance has said more than once that he does not want to toss the garter. I've always imagined that my garter would be my "something blue" and have always wanted this since I was little. He says it's "silly" and is not going to do it. I suspect it has something to do with him feeling a bit insecure and a fear that if he does it he will look silly or foolish in some way. I will be throwing my bouquet, and he has no issue with that. HELP! How can I make him understand that it means a lot to me, and no one will think he looks ridiculous for throwing the garter at his own wedding?