Are you having one? I wanted to hear your plans :-)
I had mine last night and it was so fun. My sister planned it and decorated our car and me. We went to eat at my favorite restaurant and then went to my favorite bar to watch and awesome band. We did have 3 party crashers! They showed up to the bar with no money and asked for everyone else to pay their way in. My sister was nice and paid their way in (which was $10 a piece) and then they spent at least $100 in alcohol, hung out by themselves and left without saying a word. Keep in mind that when my sister planned this she offered to cover everyone's meal and $10 cover for the bar. All of those who RSVP'd told her they would pay for their part. One of the crashers was the mother of one of the girls my sister invited and she was not invited to begin with. The other two never RSVP'd to my sister's invitation and never returned her follow up call so she assumed they were declines. They were standing in from of the bar when we got there. Ugh. I will definitely say something after our wedding because I don't want the drama before! It didn't ruin our night though, we still had a blast.
First month TTCing #2 7/12
m/c 10/2004, m/c 7/2005, pregnant with my daughter after 6 months of clomid 8/06, loss of her twin 11/06, m/c 1/09, m/c 2/13