I am having trouble deciding on my married name. I am taking my future husbands last name and prefer to stick to only 1 middle name (I feel like 4 names is rather long), but I am having trouble deciding to drop my maiden name or my current middle name. My middle name was given to me as a token to my maternal grandfather whom I am very close with; however I also feel I would hurt my fathers side of the family by dropping my maiden name completely. Anyone else having trouble with this?