I'm curious as to what all of you are doing. Being over 40, all of us have likely had the same name for some time. I've been asked multiple times if I was changing my name. A question I thought was odd. Of course I have planned to take my fiance's last name. The question is if I keep my maiden name and use all three (First/Maiden/Married) or just use my first name with my new married name. My fiance asked if I was going to drop my middle name or my maiden name in my monogram. I, of course, said it would be First/Maiden/Last as that is how I always thought I would do it and I actually LIKE my maiden name. It's who've I've been forever. He prefers I use First/Middle/Married, which to me seems odd. Has anyone else done this? Has anyone kept all four First/Middle/Maiden/Last? I have one friend who has done this. I never really thought much about the options, but I guess it's time to do that.