My cousin is 12 and I want to have her as a jr. bridesmaid in the wedding along with my brother who is 10.
Is it rude/wrong to not include her younger brother, who is 6?
Also, I don't have a job for him as my fiance's niece and nephew will be the ring bearer and flower girl.
I do have a lot of younger cousins (ages 1-6) so I also do not know if it would be rude to not include them. My cousin had all the kids walk in and sit on the church steps inside the wedding. I love them all and would love to include them all like that but I do not know how else that could work with an outdoor wedding ?
Would it be too big and chaotic ? We always wanted something simple and I feel like I cannot include one without the others now!