I want to include my soon to be 4 year old step child in our wedding. We don't want to do it during the traditional vows portion, and really don't want to do the gift. We want everything to be traditional where it is just the two of us. We want an additional piece that is just for including my step son. Like a family commitment ceremony or something of that nature. I'm not creative so i'm looking for more of the wording that i could use or something that we could do to symbolize that we are a family bonded together. I just feel hes not old enough to get the whole vows portion. Please help!