We have just started planing our wedding and had gotten the contract in the mail for the site we were going to use. My fiancé and I went out my parents as the contract was in their name and they are helping to fund the wedding. In talking about if we were all ok with the venue, the price and so on my mother ask my father if he was going to be part of this as he had been finding issues with every last thing since we had picked a place, and he said " NO". It has nothing to do with who I am marrying has he had ask for my hand and my father said yes. My father has "issues" being around people he " doesn't like people" and our guest count is around 270.
When he said that I don't think I have ever cried so hard in my life next to my future husband my father is the most important person to be there with me on that day. I don't know how I would deal or keep face if one the biggest day of my life my father is not there and how would my family and I address the where is he questions and how can I let it be known that he does approve of me getting married?
The only thing I truely want is for him to be there, walk me down the aslie give me away and give me my father daughter dance.