So, can I ban my FI from strip clubs at his bachelor party, or do I just need to get over it? Personally, I think they're so wrong/humiliating etc. but I know I am in a minority on that (I have many friends girls and guys who think nothing of going on a normal Saturday night). My FI isn't into them at all, and I know he'd never suggest going to one himself BUT he is also a massive people-pleaser and if his friends planned it for him, I don't think he'd have the guts to refuse (especially with a few beers in him!) He does know vaguely how I feel but I don't know how much I can press it without being a crazy bitch... any thoughts????