I'm not sure if I wrote on here before about this, my mom and MOH are asking me for a guest list for the bridal shower, now I know it has to be my closest family and friends and my MIL and his grandma, do I have to invite my grooms aunt who lives down here? from what I hear her and my MIL are not on talking terms for whatever reason, I was thinking of inviting her, though my mom did invite her to our engagement party and she didn't come , said she forgot and if I do invite her do I have to invite his two girl cousins? . also I'm friends who some of his friends we worked together, do I have to invite them? I know I'm inviting two of the groomsmen girlfriends because we all hang out and go out to dinner, then there are three other ladies, thoughts, opinions? I don't want to exclude anyone, but then again I don't want to invite like 100 people either, and I do have friends who are out of town so not sure if they will be able to travel down ( California and N.C. is where they live ) .