Okay, so I'm not planning on paying for my bridemaids hair. I voiced this to my SIL and FSIL (brother's FI) and they both said they wanted their hair done at the salon and when I make the appointment I just say I want it for all my girls. I basically said no I'm not making my girls have to get their hair done nor am I paying for it (I was blunt, good thing they're related to me!) But, because I want to set up my appointment ASAP (maybe today-tomorrow) I sent out a text to my other two Bridesmaids saying "Do you want to get your hair profesionally done for my wedding? It doesn't have to be but just need to know so I can make the appointment" My one BM texted back Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (she's overly happy) and the other one inquired saying if I want their hair a certain style and if she can do it herself then she'll just do it otherwise she'd have to have it done. I told her I'm not picky and her hair can look however she would like. She then asked me if I wanted it up or down and I told her I don't care, it's whatever you would like. She then said she'd just do her own.
My FI thinks that my text implies that I will pay for it and I should tell my BM who said yes that I wouldn't be paying for it. I think it doesn't imply that and just wanted inputs of what you think/would do. I'll prob be talking to this BM this weekend either way about life in general, her wedding, my wedding etc.