I have a friend that I've known for 10 years. We used to be really close up until a couple years ago. We still talk pretty regularly, but aren't as close as we used to be. I have mentioned in the past that I would have her as a bridesmaid (not within the past year or so), but now I don't want her to be involved. My fiance is having two groomsmen, and I will have two as well (a friend that I've known since pre-school and my niece). How do I let her down gently? I don't want to make her feel bad, but I kind of just want to get it over with so she isn't thinking she is a bridesmaid. In the long run I don't think she will mind. She has been in a lot of weddings and is kind of 'over it' but like I said, I don't want to hurt her feelings. Help!