So you may think I'm harsh for posting this, but one of the bridesmaids (let's call her Sam) is driving me absolutely crazy!
For starters, after she told me that she was so excited to be in my wedding (before I had ever even asked her), she also told another girl that she was going to be one of my bridesmaids! I told Sam that I was sorry, but she'd made a mistake, and she would need to rectify the situation with the other girl. Instead of doing so, she told the other girl that I changed my mind and that there were other girls I decided I'd rather have as bridesmaids instead of her. Now, of course, the other girl is no longer speaking to me.
Then there is the issue of bridesmaid dresses. Sam went to an appointment to try dresses on with some of the other girls and myself, and pitched a fit about every single dress except the one she wanted - which happens to look almost identical to my wedding gown. Naturally, I vetoed it. She then decided that she didn't like my color scheme (light purple), and that the bridesmaids should be dressed in yellow instead. She actually went so far as to email some of the other girls and say that I changed my mind about the color! Of course, all of them knew better, but I think it's completely ridiculous that she would even try that. So far, she is still refusing to buy the dress that all the other girls settled on, because it's "not tight enough." Oy vey!
And finally, there is the issue of her date. My FI and I are having a very small and intimate wedding, so we're not giving out plus ones unless the guest is actually in a relationship. Sam has been through three guys in the past three weeks, and has apparently mentioned the wedding to each one of them, as she'll text me and say, "[so and so] is super excited about your wedding!"
Am I within my rights to be frustrated with this girl, or am I just being a bridezilla and overreacting?