I havent bought my dress yet and im afraid of my arms. I didnt want to add selves because all it does is draw attention with the lace ect but recently I have come across this idea! I think im obsessing over it. I would want one that is fitted and lays at my dress line across my back. Solid color. My colors are purple(s) and siver/gray If this happens what combo. I think Purple selves would be too much...what do you think? Or a grayish or white bolero with a purple belt? Sash that goes down the back of the dress I think would be to much as well. What do you guys think.