So as much as I love the holidays, they do bring a bit of stress due to FMIL.
Background info:
. FI and I live apart (but he spends his time pretty much exclusively at my house)
. We did not spend Thanksgiving together. FMIL loves hosting Thanksgiving, but wanted FI to stay there the whole time so we couldn't split it up between our two families. I chose not to fight it and went to my Aunt's house to see my cousins who I hadn't seen in months.
. We spend every Christmas day together with his whole family and my whole family at my parents' house.
. FI sleeps at his parents' house on Christmas Eve every year in order to wake up there and open presents in the morning (per his mom's request).
Usually on Christmas Eve, FI stays with his family the entire day. They hang out at home and eat Chinese food and bake. However, this year, my family has decided to go to visit my grandparents because they are not well. Also, my cousin just had a baby and we'd like to meet/see the baby for the first time. FI was going to come with us and see his family in the morning/afternoon of Christmas Eve only.
Well, FMIL called FI hysterically crying and now FI doesn't know if he should go with me or not. I think it's entirely ridiculous and splitting the day up should be a perfectly reasonable compromise. FMIL thinks that she "only has FI for one more year" (until we get married) and "tradition" is they spend every single part of the day and night together on Christmas Eve (until FMIL goes to bed, then everyone can do what they want).
Am I being insensitive? I'm just not sure.