Currently I'm overwhelmed and wonder if I should cancel, not cancel as in second thoughts of the marriage. We were beginning the planning phase when Uncle Sam dropped a nice surprise on us, so as common in military we had less than a month to elope or plan small intimate wedding. We kind of eloped but planned on doing a more traditional wedding a little bit later. I can't seem to find a venue that is within our budget but my mom is bugging me hard about finding a venue whereas my hubby just wants me to be happy which ever way. Any venues around Kansas City mo or Overland Park ks area ideas below 1000? Any ideas that are national to try? I'm just frustrated, I don't want my mom and pay a lot, I'm contributing all I can and I don't want to ask my husband. Anything would be helpful