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I gotta lotta problems with you people!! Okay, not really, but some other things are grinding my gears.

Irrational Irritation: CLEAN. OFF. YOUR. DAMN. CAR. Yes, I know, it takes time, and it's cold, but if a chunk of snow/ice flies off of your car and hits my car, I'm going to kick you squarely in the babymaker. Stop being a LAZY FUCK and brush the snow off of your car. Not just the part of the windshield you need to see out of - THE WHOLE. FUCKING. THING.

Confession: I'm having a sleepover with my BFF tonight, and BF is being a baby about the fact that I'm going to be gone for ONE NIGHT. And all I want to do is roll my eyes, when I feel like I should be "awww he's gonna miss me." 

Irrational Irritation: I'm not sure who to blame here, but my mail is fucking late all the time, and it's really starting to piss me off. I still haven't gotten ONE of my 12 Days of Bullshit, and my mom mailed me a card on Monday that still hasn't arrived. THE FUCK, USPS??

Unpop Op: I LOVEEEE that it's snowing. Maybe it's the Maineiac in me, but snow makes me happy.



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  • confession:  I'm having a hard time with my PMDD this week.  I'm feeling really depressed and having unhealthy thoughts.  I know that it's only a day or two more and I'll start feeling more normal, but I just feel so, so sad. 

    irrational irritation:  how involved my parents are with my brother and buying his house.  also, that when we got our tornado shelter put in this week, the first thing my mom said was "oh, now Coco's brother has TWO places to choose from when we have bad weather!"

    unpop op:  I saw a preview for one of the HG movies, and I just don't get why everyone is so into it.

    confession:  I have quite a bit of work to do before my holiday vacation at work, but I have zero motivation to do anything, not even eat.

  • Confession: I have driven with ice chunks falling off the roof of my car. But that's because I was rushing to work and I didn't want to scrap the paint off my roof.

    Unpop Op: I don't really care that Beyonce came out with a new album? Everyone's freaking out and I probably will listen at some point, but I'm not going out of my way.

    Confession: I'm still feeling blah after bad dreams last night.

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  • I'm so glad someone started this today.

    Confession: I just bitched out a secretary at my gyn office for rescheduling a 10 minute appointment THREE TIMES IN AN HOUR. I'm like "get your shit together, please, for my sanity"

    II: When people who are perfectly capable to walk up a flight of stairs take the elevator one fucking flight. If my fat ass can go up and down two flights of stairs, you can go up or down one.

    II: I hate people who drive so fucking slow. PUT THE FUCKING PEDAL TO THE METAL. I was behind a lady who was literally going 15 MPH in a 30 MPH zone. I wanted to punch her hard.

    II: When people ask you to do something and you don't know how to do it, and then they ask you again. Sure, I'll write that email: "I don't know what to do on this new system, but you asked me to do this, so I tried." There's your fucking email.

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  • I'm so glad someone started this today.

    Confession: I just bitched out a secretary at my gyn office for rescheduling a 10 minute appointment THREE TIMES IN AN HOUR. I'm like "get your shit together, please, for my sanity"

    II: When people who are perfectly capable to walk up a flight of stairs take the elevator one fucking flight. If my fat ass can go up and down two flights of stairs, you can go up or down one.

    II: I hate people who drive so fucking slow. PUT THE FUCKING PEDAL TO THE METAL. I was behind a lady who was literally going 15 MPH in a 30 MPH zone. I wanted to punch her hard.

    II: When people ask you to do something and you don't know how to do it, and then they ask you again. Sure, I'll write that email: "I don't know what to do on this new system, but you asked me to do this, so I tried." There's your fucking email.

    As I was merging onto the highway last night, there was a dude going FORTY FUCKING FIVE MILES AN HOUR. ON THE HIGHWAY. It was unbelievable. GTFO.



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  • II: I get SO annoyed that my mom uses her email once a week. She just sent me an email, I replied, then thought to myself: "what's the fucking point, she won't check it again until next Friday". Mom, get with the program.

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  • Irrational Irritations:

    My hair hurts. I freakin' hate when my hair acts like a B and hurts.

    My mom asking us to decorate cookies Saturday. I get that it makes sense to have them before Christmas, but I'm annoyed that we have to go over there this weekend too.

    Confession: I'm feeling super anxious today and having a hard time functioning. I just want to go home and get back in bed. I'll have to drink a beer or two as soon as I get home today. (5 hours and 48 minutes until I can leave.)


  • Kait said:
    Confession: I have driven with ice chunks falling off the roof of my car. But that's because I was rushing to work and I didn't want to scrap the paint off my roof.

    Unpop Op: I don't really care that Beyonce came out with a new album? Everyone's freaking out and I probably will listen at some point, but I'm not going out of my way.

    Confession: I'm still feeling blah after bad dreams last night.
    Lame excuse. You're not going to scrape the paint off by brushing it off. And YOUR ice denting MY car is way worse than a few minor scratches that are going to be caused by it sliding off anyway. Give yourself more time.



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  • II: I get SO annoyed that my mom uses her email once a week. She just sent me an email, I replied, then thought to myself: "what's the fucking point, she won't check it again until next Friday". Mom, get with the program.
    I haaaate when people are like that. Some of the people who work for us will reply to an email I sent and be like "Oh I haven't checked my email today. Should I check it?" "Uhhhh, yea. That is how we communicate with you. If I had to call each of you every time I needed to let you know something, I'd be on the phone all day."

    And my MOH was like "I don't read group emails after 6 replies." ... ?WHAT?!?
  • Confession: I'm sad that the newbs never pick me for favorite poster on NEY. Maybe I need to start being nicer? Maybe not. 

    Confession: Part of me wants to drink too much beer on Sunday so I don't have to go to dinner with H's family. The likeliness of this happening? Very high. 

    AYG: IDK if this is even allowed but whatever: the chick on a thread on CC who wrote 3 paragraphs on how terrible it is to live together before marriage. If YOU don't want to live with your SO before you're married: DO YOU. But do not come here with your bullshit and made-up "facts" and tell me I'm I was "fake married" and that I'll have more problems than someone who didn't live with their SO. Fuck off. Got me all riled up before 9am today.



  • I'm so glad someone started this today.

    Confession: I just bitched out a secretary at my gyn office for rescheduling a 10 minute appointment THREE TIMES IN AN HOUR. I'm like "get your shit together, please, for my sanity"

    II: When people who are perfectly capable to walk up a flight of stairs take the elevator one fucking flight. If my fat ass can go up and down two flights of stairs, you can go up or down one.

    II: I hate people who drive so fucking slow. PUT THE FUCKING PEDAL TO THE METAL. I was behind a lady who was literally going 15 MPH in a 30 MPH zone. I wanted to punch her hard.

    II: When people ask you to do something and you don't know how to do it, and then they ask you again. Sure, I'll write that email: "I don't know what to do on this new system, but you asked me to do this, so I tried." There's your fucking email.

    @buddysmom80: A MILLION times yes to this.  The stairs are RIGHT next to the elevator, people!  When I'm trying to run to a meeting and the elevator opens and closes on each floor for someone to travel one or two floors, when I have about 10 to travel, it kills me.  I always try and tell myself they may be going through a health hardship that I can not see, but it doesn't do much to quell the rage.  I may audibly sigh when people press the button to go down one floor.  I can't help it.

    Irrational Irritation: I realize that this may be just part of growing up, but I HATE how people want to show me what they bought me for Christmas before I unwrap it on Christmas Eve of Christmas Day.  Leave me a little magic!  I'm very easy to shop for, and (I think) I give a very fair list of suggestions when asked, but my mom already made me buy my own gifts.  I really, really, really appreciate the thought and that you want me to be happy, but I want to be a tiny bit surprised!

    Confession: I do not wash my bras more than once every 5-10 wears.  Somepeople may find that gross, but I can not afford enough bras/do not have enough time to do differently.

  • Grievance: I've been under a lot of stress in the last month (work-related) and I was hoping I was going to get to skip a period. Yesterday ... I fell to the communists. A week late. Unkind, body. Unkind.
  • Confession: I just went on Amazon to see what BF bought me off my wishlist. I'm going to kill him. He seriously bought me a fucking pink blender.

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  • Confession: I just went on Amazon to see what BF bought me off my wishlist. I'm going to kill him. He seriously bought me a fucking pink blender.
    So you can make me margaritas when I come to visit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 



  • Confession: I just went on Amazon to see what BF bought me off my wishlist. I'm going to kill him. He seriously bought me a fucking pink blender.

    So you can make me margaritas when I come to visit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

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    No, we need this one:

    http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/store/product/Margaritaville-reg-Tahiti-Frozen-Concoction-trade-Maker/1016310140?Keyword=margaritaville

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  • Confession-  I am hungover.  There was too much wine at H's Christmas party last night.  I'm working from home waiting for our couch and tv delivery.  As much as I want our new stuff, I'd rather just lie on the couch all day and not move.  

    iI- I.cant stand when customers ask me for a better price because they're "my favorite".  Um, no I already gave you your price.  Stop being cheap and just fucking put the order in.  That will make you my favorite.
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  • Confession: My shoes from Aldo came in and I love them so much I want to wear them everywhere.

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  • Confession: I just went on Amazon to see what BF bought me off my wishlist. I'm going to kill him. He seriously bought me a fucking pink blender.

    So you can make me margaritas when I come to visit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

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    No, we need this one:

    http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/store/product/Margaritaville-reg-Tahiti-Frozen-Concoction-trade-Maker/1016310140?Keyword=margaritaville

    Holy shit, that's amazing!



  • Swazzle said:
    Confession: I just went on Amazon to see what BF bought me off my wishlist. I'm going to kill him. He seriously bought me a fucking pink blender.

    So you can make me margaritas when I come to visit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

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    No, we need this one:

    http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/store/product/Margaritaville-reg-Tahiti-Frozen-Concoction-trade-Maker/1016310140?Keyword=margaritaville

    Holy shit, that's amazing!

    I would never leave my house if I bought that. Each pitcher is one drink. Just add a straw.

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  • Swazzle said:
    Confession: I'm sad that the newbs never pick me for favorite poster on NEY. Maybe I need to start being nicer? Maybe not. 

    Confession: Part of me wants to drink too much beer on Sunday so I don't have to go to dinner with H's family. The likeliness of this happening? Very high. 

    AYG: IDK if this is even allowed but whatever: the chick on a thread on CC who wrote 3 paragraphs on how terrible it is to live together before marriage. If YOU don't want to live with your SO before you're married: DO YOU. But do not come here with your bullshit and made-up "facts" and tell me I'm I was "fake married" and that I'll have more problems than someone who didn't live with their SO. Fuck off. Got me all riled up before 9am today.

    @Swazzle Maybe you need to post more gifs? I feel like we haven't seen many lately.

    Confession: I spent over $100 at Steinmart yesterday on stocking stuffers for BF, his mom's Christmas gift, and new curtains for our living room...oh yeah and a picture frame. Those $2 kitchen towels really add up quickly. Also...why are boxers so damn expensive?

    Confession: I ate six chocolate chip cookies at my mom's house yesterday. My excuse...they're starting to go stale and such delicious cookies shouldn't be allowed to go to waste.

    II: The guy parked in the 5 minute parking spot for the dry cleaners this morning who was obviously in his car on his phone texting. Listen...that spot is there for people who are dropping off/picking up...not for you to hog while you screw around on your phone.



  • Confession: My shoes from Aldo came in and I love them so much I want to wear them everywhere.
    I can't wait to see pics of you rocking those bad boys!
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  • Totally rational irritation: I think I'm getting a cold that DH had earlier this week and I blame him for giving it to me. Dafaq?? I don't have time to be sick!!

    Confession: I don't think we've banged since our anniversary. 

    Confession: I spent money on nail polish that I didn't need, and I'm getting my hair cut at an expensive salon on Saturday. Poor house, table of 1. 

    II: Too many intro/newb posts. I have enough trouble keeping up with the regs!
  • Confession: I distinctly told H we were going to eff when we got home last night. There was no sexy times. My leftovers in the fridge were a bigger priority.
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    Confession - I wish the kid I babysit for was like 5 years old instead of 13 and that her dad asked me to go with them on their surprise trip to Vegas next week. I don't even care that BF wouldn't be able to go without me. I'd hang out with the kid all day, they gamble and drink and party at night. I would rock the shit out of that trip. It would be epic. Vegas is wasted on children.

    Confession - BF doesn't want to go out this weekend because he said he's seriously broke. I am reeeeaaaally hoping he's broke because he bought an e-ring. We haven't been doing any out-of-the-ordinary spending lately, and he's told me he hasn't bought any Christmas presents yet, so I don't know why he would be broke. I am happy to stay in this weekend and drink all the wine at home, if that is the reason he's doesn't have any extra money to spend..

    Confession - I had a total breakdown last night when applying for Obamacare. I HATE not having a "real" job, and hate that I have to collect unemployment. Even though it was my choice to quit my last job, and I'm still happy with the decision, I just hate feeling like a failure. I'm used to being the one in my family, and in my relationship, that's got everything under control and getting promotions and raises, and making good money. Now, I don't know what I'll be doing even a few months from now. I'm doing fine financially at the moment - I even have more in savings than I did before leaving my job - but I hate the uncertainty and the dependence on uncontrollable forces that is my life right now. BF doesn't make a lot of money and if - god forbid - he lost his job, we'd be fucking screwed. I know I should be enjoying every moment I can, since my life is pretty damn great compared to so many other people, but I can't help but wish I could fast forward a year or two and just be more confident about my financial future.
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  • TwoDimes said:
    Swazzle said:
    Confession: I'm sad that the newbs never pick me for favorite poster on NEY. Maybe I need to start being nicer? Maybe not. 

    Confession: Part of me wants to drink too much beer on Sunday so I don't have to go to dinner with H's family. The likeliness of this happening? Very high. 

    AYG: IDK if this is even allowed but whatever: the chick on a thread on CC who wrote 3 paragraphs on how terrible it is to live together before marriage. If YOU don't want to live with your SO before you're married: DO YOU. But do not come here with your bullshit and made-up "facts" and tell me I'm I was "fake married" and that I'll have more problems than someone who didn't live with their SO. Fuck off. Got me all riled up before 9am today.
    I'm fairly positive I picked you. I win at the newbs!
    YOU'RE RIGHT! YOU DO WIN!!!!



  • Confession: I've been worthless at work this week. I havent done much and I'm alright with that. Idk if it's because its so close to Christmas or because I'm just burnt out, but I'm not feeling it.

    II: I really can't stand when people decorate their vehicle for Christmas. I think putting reindeer antlers and a red "nose" on your car looks fucking ridiculous. Or when they wrap tinsel or garland on the luggage racks. Just no.


    Unpop Op: Inflatable Christmas decorations. Apparently a lot of people like them because they are EVERYWHERE. Again. it looks fucking ridiculous and tacky.

    I'm really not a Scrooge, I just hate tacky, stupid shit :)
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  • Confession: I'm not super excited to visit my parents for Christmas. Spending 3 weeks away from BF is not my idea of a fun way to spend the holidays. But it's my own fault for not just telling my mom no.

    Irrational Irritation: Some of my students gave me negative course evaluations. I know it's because those students were dicks and mad they got the grade they deserved but I'm still really annoyed by it.

    AYG - One of my students went to the communication department and was bitching about me to people. I don't exactly know why she thought that was a good idea because now not only do I not like her but no one in the department does. Good job honey, you switched majors and managed to make everyone dislike you in one semester flat.


  • @severmilli12 - I hate those inflatable Christmas decorations too! There are a lot of football (ie New York Giants) ones near me and I want to pull over, get out of the car, and tackle the shit out of them until they die. 



  • @Swazzle I think you should tackle them!! I want to go around to all the houses I have to drive by and pop all their inflatables. That would make my Christmas merry.
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  • I am fucking pissed because Key Bank assess a fucking maintenance fee on my fucking acct this morning. .....I am so glad I am transferring to a local credit union!
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