I'm sure people will yell at me for this one-
I asked my bridesmaids to be in my party a long time ago (I'm having about a 2 year engagement), but because I didn't want a large bridal party I chose to leave off a friend whom I've known for a shorter amount of time than the ladies I asked. The girl mentioned she was hurt and actually asked to be an attendant. I said I was happy to have her included but I didn't want her to feel obligated since I felt weird having an attendant. Well, its been a long time since I asked people but her and I have remained close and I decided to ask her to join the wedding party. I told her I should've done it from the start and apologized. She said yes, which I love. Am I horrible for asking her to be an addition?