Dear Prudence,
For Christmas this year, my husband and I are traveling to his hometown
to celebrate with his family. His parents are divorced, so we have made
plans to see them separately. My husband just informed me that Christmas
Day will be spent with his mother and her side of the family, and we'll
all be eating pizza. I'm easygoing and appreciate that we can be with
family members, but Christmas is my favorite holiday and it bums me out
that we'll be celebrating so casually (not to mention pizza is one of my
least favorite foods). I'm known in our families as a pretty decent
cook and I thought about offering to cook a more elaborate dinner for
everyone, but I also don't want to commit a faux pas by suggesting this.
What should I do?