I am a young bride, getting married a couple months after turning 21. My bridesmaids will be 23, 20, 19 and 18 on my wedding day and I'd like to have a Bachelorette/Lingerie party the weekend before. I am also including my honorary bridesmaids and close girlfriends in the B/L party who range in age from 20-21 (So some of my friends can legally drink and some cannot.) My issue is finding a place to hold this event. I want to be able to go out and drink and have a good time (my underage friends are okay with not drinking/being DDs), but I am concerned that most of the bars in town are 21+. I realize we could simply have the party (especially the lingerie segment) at a friends house but I was just trying to think of fun things to do beforehand (i.e. karaoke/live entertainment) that won't cost the girls an arm and a leg as most of my friends are college students on a budget.
Any ideas for fun and entertaining bachelorette/lingerie parties with under 21 guests? I want it to be fun for all, especially because my 23 year old sister recently complained about a bachelorette weekend she attended recently that was "boring" and begged me to make sure mine was more fun. Any ideas would be appreciated!
**Note: My friends and I are not huge into the getting drunk/stripper nonsense...but we do want to have fun.***