Just wanted to hear your thoughts about this idea. So I've never really been a flower type of person. Even for birthdays and Valentine's Day I'd never be disappointed if FI didn't give me flowers. I was thinking maybe I could have my BMs hold something else other than flowers. Has anyone else had the idea of not having their BMs hold flowers during the ceremony? I know I have tons of time to think about it but, I am also hoping to do this to save money on flowers. What do you guys think?