So I have a dilemma... before officially asking my bridesmaids to be in my wedding, I was talking with one of my really close friends about the wedding and couldn't help it, so I hinted to her that she was going to be in my bridal party, but that is all I said. Since then, she has made a few comments assuming she is my maid of honor, but I never gave her that role. I am the maid of honor for my best friend's wedding and I was planning on her being my matron of honor and she is planning on that as well, but I was not planning on having my other friend be the maid of honor like she thinks she is because our styles are different and my best friend knows me best and wasn't planning on sharing the responsibilities. Now I am about to ask my bridesmaids to be in my wedding officially, but I don't want to hurt my good friend by not asking her to be the maid of honor. How do I handle this? Or should I just give in and have a matron of honor as well as a maid of honor?