just got engaged in nov. yay!!! I would like to set the date now even though we are probably going to the justice of the peace. We rather save the money for our first house. he doesnt want to talk about a date until after the holidays. My questions is why? what do you think? I know he wants to get a suit and he is telling his friends summer and so am I. do not understand the wait. I know its only been a month.... must learn patience lol