I am not new to the board because I was supposed to get married in sept. 2012 and things got cancelled two weeks before my wedding (house fire, relationship issues, health issues). I am still engaged to my partner and we have gotten back on task. We have decided to do try the whole wedding thing again in 2015. however I am resistant to tell my friends and family because I got so much slack from everyone when I called it off the first time. I have told a few friends and they all give me the same thing about are you sure this time... Should I just forgo my wedding and go to the justice of the peace??