TIME FOR A "BIG WEDDING"

Re: TIME FOR A "BIG WEDDING"

• kmmssg mod

  

  January 2014

  d2va said:

  Welcome to the internet ladies. This very question is posted like 500 times on this board with how many on the front page?
  
  Also, it was more of a sarcastic comment, I forgot to turn my sarcasm font on.
  
  With a thread title TIME FOR A BIG WEDDING.... but I already got married.
  
  OP definitely took the advice posted much better than most do. I do not retract my statement as they should celebrate their marriage together for their one year anniversary by going out to dinner or whatever it is that people do on their first anniversary and call it a day, and not try to make a big spectacle of it and try to get gifts and blah blah a year later.
  
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  In all the time I have been here I had NO idea this was the internet.  It was still uncalled for.

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• tmclawchick member

  

  January 2014

  d2va said:

  Welcome to the internet ladies. This very question is posted like 500 times on this board with how many on the front page?
  
  Also, it was more of a sarcastic comment, I forgot to turn my sarcasm font on.
  
  With a thread title TIME FOR A BIG WEDDING.... but I already got married.
  
  OP definitely took the advice posted much better than most do. I do not retract my statement as they should celebrate their marriage together for their one year anniversary by going out to dinner or whatever it is that people do on their first anniversary and call it a day, and not try to make a big spectacle of it and try to get gifts and blah blah a year later.
  
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  Well don't you sound like a peach!
  

   

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• mrs4everhart member

  

  January 2014 edited January 2014

  d2va said: Welcome to the internet ladies. This very question is posted like 500 times on this board with how many on the front page?
  
  Also, it was more of a sarcastic comment, I forgot to turn my sarcasm font on.
  
  With a thread title TIME FOR A BIG WEDDING.... but I already got married.
  
  OP definitely took the advice posted much better than most do. I do not retract my statement as they should celebrate their marriage together for their one year anniversary by going out to dinner or whatever it is that people do on their first anniversary and call it a day, and not try to make a big spectacle of it and try to get gifts and blah blah a year later.
  
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  Obviously the woman who wrote in to an Etiquette board was looking for advice. Clearly she was open to the advice of strangers on the internet. You could have constructively given her the advice you thought appropriate to her situation, as she did ask for it, or not ever set your fingers to your keyboard. Telling her to STFU was not only rude it was completely counter to the purpose of a message board where people go to get advice. You provided nothing but exclaiming to the world that you're unable to advise anyone and that your council amounts to telling someone to shut up for asking a question. 

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• Rebl90 member

  

  January 2014

  OP - Congrats on getting married!

  
  

  You should definitely go with a big anniversary party as others have suggested.  Just stay away from "wedding" things, after all, you're already husband and wife!

  
  

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• Angusaur member

  

  January 2014

  I side eye shitty comments for no reason to a poster. Yeah, women ask the same question 5x a day. Yeah, there is a sticky about it. Oh fucking well. Give each person a chance to learn what's right and what's not, because nobody is perfect. To me, people who act like that are trying overly hard for internet cool points by being a bully. I somehow doubt if you were PM'ed and asked this question that the asker would be told to shut the fuck up.

  
  

  
  

  
  

  

  
  

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