So when we first started talking about bachelorette party, all I wanted to do was have a girls' night out bowling. There is this amazing bowling alley by us that has a DJ and they have the black lights, and games, and its just so much fun! Bowling/dancing I love this place. Besides- my youngest bridesmaid is my "little cousin" who is only 15- so I figured it was a great way to make sure she is included.
My sister who is my MOH insisted we still have a night out in the city, so I agreed to going to this place in NYC that has a mechanical bull and is a lot of fun.
The plan was: a family party with cousins/mom etc bowling, and then a night out in the city with 21+ crew, all my girlfriends.
Well now it looks like we may not be bowling at all, because my mom doesn't think anyone would go, so she is therefore not helping my sister call/invite people and plan it. My mom is trying to convince me not to do it at all and to just go out with my friends.
All i wanted from the beginning was for it to be my close family and bridesmaids out bowling. Now I'm going out into the city with my friends and not even going bowling. POUT.
The party is August 5 and 6, which is less than 2 weeks away now and getting a little too late to start planning. I'm just very grumpy about it and being a bit of a brat. Sorry just needed to vent.
Does anyone else feel like they aren't being heard in something that they really wanted?
There's only 1 way 2 say those 3 words and that's what I'll do... I love you
